Life's not fair

Give your best, do your best and everything else in this world will follow you but years later we realized that’s not how it works. We realized that this life is not fair and you have to accept it whether you like it or not. Actually, ever since I was a teenager I realized that life is not fair but I didn’t want to admit it because I was scared of what I might face next? I mean, I lived to witness the unexpected and I wasn’t perfectly fine with that but it made me feel better.

A week ago or even more, I had a conversation with a close friend of mine and I remember that I was ranting about lot things and I was truly suffocated from everything around me, I remember this friend’s lines: “When you hit the rock bottom, there’s nothing below than this state. Something ought to be changed, I’m not telling you that everything will be pink and rainbows won’t start spreading across your sky but something will change.” At that moment those words didn’t help me but a day after that I started thinking about it and linking it to everything around me.

When you hit the bottom, you’ll feel helpless and you may think that you’ll live in this pit of misery forever but if you looked at it from a different angle, I assure you that you’ll feel better. There’s no such thing as I lost it all because losing something means that there’s a room for something new and it might be better and it might not but that’s when life walks in to treat you fairly or not.

You and I both know that this life sometimes punches you and then help you stand, then it punches you again and it goes on and on. At that moment remember, you’re at the bottom nothing is left to pull you down not even gravity so instead of sitting down and feeling bad over yourself, stand and do your best even if you fail at least you found something that you should not attempt to do again; and don’t you dare and say “the position I am in cannot be changed” at least change your view, hope for the best and aim for it instead of losing every single cell of hope in you.  

Asking for an internal change isn’t easy but with patience and a strong will everything can be done. Life is not fair but that’s not your fault, so start to believe in your own potential and be rebellious. Rebel on this life when it doesn’t offer you what you need. Again, life is not fair but rebels frighten life and it goes with what they want.

don't forget, stay hopeful

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Love and hope

Maitha the Parrot