I Decide

Life is a long tunnel that you don't know what will you face at the end. There's a light but you don't know if it's a light that welcomes you to heaven or the light that give hell its color; but during that journey you'll face lot of situations and meet lot of people. 

I had a conversation with a friend about humans and their relationships. We are really complicated when it comes to that matter because you can never find two people alike and sometimes that sucks, like you have to learn a new thing every time someone breaks your heart or shocks you with their hatred. 

I always wanted to grow up so I can be a cold hearted person, I thought that's how adults act to avoid heartbreaks but I was wrong. You don't have to be heartless to avoid being lied to or deceived! The secret is that you have to pick who deserves to stay in your life and who should walk out of the door. 

Once I had a huge fight with a friend that I used to call "soul mate" that friend clearly came to me and said "I don't like you anymore" and the explanations that came after those words sounded like "pejaow fosisj isjsj I LIED TO YOU ajsj jfriod" I felt stupid because signs were there but I ignored them hoping that this person will change one day but at the end that person changed me to be more egoistic. I reached a point that I ignore everyone and avoid any kind of interaction. I used to be fine with it but when it's time to sleep, the memories start running like a movie in my mind.. I keep asking myself, 

Why did you do that? 

Why did you give that person a second chance? 

Why do they dislike you? 

And many many other questions that kept me up till my brain gives up and falls asleep. 

Somehow I found the answers to all of these question and my trashy behavior.. I'm going to leave this world one day, so why should I spend a second with regrets because every second of my life matters! I'm wasting a moment of happiness in every second I choose to be angry and fussy but sometimes I shouldn't fight the negative feelings because I'm a human just like each one of you. it's okay if I get angry, this feeling lives in me. It's my right to get angry and hate everything for a while but what's not right is letting such feelings hold the stirring wheel of my life; The choice is mine and nothing gets to make my mind up.. I decide.

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Hope and Love

Maitha the Parrot